I don’t think balance is something you get from someone else it’s something women have to find from within. For me, finding balance is still a work in progress.
Guys are simple… women are not simple and they always assume that men must be just as complicated as they are, only way more mysterious. The whole point is guys are not thinking much. They are just what they appear to be. Tragically.
But what of black women?… I most sincerely doubt if any other race of women could have brought its fineness up through so devilish a fire.
‘Charm’ – which means the power to effect work without employing brute force – is indispensable to women. Charm is a woman’s strength just as strength is a man’s charm.